The following are some of the messages we receive from around the world asking for
help and we try our best. Some have already started their surrogacy process.
Good luck to them all. Dear Bobby and Nikki, Firstly I want to congratulate you on your website, even if it is illegal :-) D, Middle East Hello, I am a 42 year old female who is engaged to a man 5 years my junior. We want to have children, but I had to have a hysterectomy two years ago. We are currently living in separate countries. Is it possible to come to India for all of the procedures necessary to have a child? In other words, him donating his sperm and me my eggs to harvest and then implant into a surrogate mother? Do you know much time this would all take? For example, would we have to go to India more than one time and do you have the information for us to do all of this? Also, what exactly happens after the surrogate has been impregnated? The parents to be leave and then return nine months later . . . to watch the deliver and then take their baby? Then there is more paper work to get the child out of India? Thank you very much in advance. Thank you also for your website! Best regards, J hello to you both what a wonderful couple you are, my name is L. I am 41 my husband,s name is I. he is greek we have been living in crete from 1996,from the start of our married life we have been desparate for a child due to many unsucessful I v f treatments and a misscarrige we still had hope but things went badly due to complications they removed my ovaries due to the op I had a pulmonery embolism thankfully I made it ,this happened 9yrs ago, so you see our only hope is a surrogate with her eggs time is running out as my husband is now 42yrs old ha,ha he will kill me for saying that but seriously we would love more than life itself to have a surrogate from india to help us please can you help our dream come true thank you so much,I look forward to hearing from you, L, Europe Hi, all This is J and R, we are a married gay couple. We have been wanting a family with our children. Last December we contacted Rotunda center for help. This week we contacted Rotunda again. Basically we need an egg donor, either from Rotunda or seek Donor elsewhere. I just found this blog site today and feel "at home". It's WONDERFUL to see all related topics and helps from people all over. We are totally new to this, and I would like to ask for more information about the egg donor situation. Is she willing to help a gay couple? and how much is the cost please. I will email you with our requirement once we know that she is willing to help us. thank you very much. J&R, North America For Nikki & Bobby a) Firstly, we would like thank you for preparing a very good website regarding overseas Surrogacy. b) We are a married couple who fit into the 1 in 6 fertility problems. We have tried various treatments including an unsuccessful IVF treatment. We are keen on surrogacy in India. We have family in Madras. So Madras would be our inclination. c) We would just like to get a clarification on 2 aspects. i) What is the legal procedure that needs to be done by us in the UK prior to surrogacy in India? Who do we need to report to and what legal documentation needs to be done? Are you able to recommend a lawyer that deals with these activities? We are thinking of either using a frozen embryo or going for a fresh cycle. ii) The process of applying for citizenship after the baby is born. We did see some aspects of this in the FAQ section where it referred to a MN(11) form. As far as we could understand, the Ist process is an application for parental order and then the next process is the application for British citizenship which takes approx. 3 months after the baby is born. Many thanks for your help in advance. S&J, India Dear Nikki and Bobby, I accidentally bumped into your website today as I googled 'Indian surrogacy'. I saw Daisy's pictire too....She is gorgeous..! So angel-like! I am so sorry to hear about your multiple failed surrogacy attempts....but hey...but at the end you got an angel in your arms! Bless you three...! R, Europe Hi We are a married couple, we have 4 frozen embryo's and are looking at going to Rotunda for a surrogate. Can you please tell us how to get a copy of your ebook. I have been reading through your website, can you please tell me why you had to stay for 2 months after the baby was born, is this really necessary, does it take that long to sort out the paperwork. Does you child have a british passport? So much information spinning round in my head. Kindest regards J&D, Europe Need help understanding. The website Oneinsix had good information but I do not know where to begin. My husband and I cannot have children of our own because I do not have a uterus. However I do have my ovaries. How do I get pointed in the right direction so I can find a way to extract my eggs and his sperm and have a surrogate mother in India help us carry our children? Obviously it is very expensive in the United States to have a surrogate mother so any information you can help me with and understanding the how to's would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, K, North America Hi Guys, just wanted to say what fantastic and informative website you have created. I have been inspired and now want to go the gestational surrogacy route at Rotunda. Perhaps unusually I am a single male, aged 28 and desperately want a child of my own - and have done for many years. I have emailed Rotunda and had a response with a breackdown of all the costs and procedures. I have also been asked to email a full personal history and post to them reports, sperm analysis etc. I have responded providing them what information I can think they might want and am waiting for a response about exactly what reports to send. I was hoping you could provide me with some guidance about exactly what I should expect over the coming months, what medical reports I need to get done on myself etc. so I can really get things moving.I don't want to wait any longer than I have to!! Thanks and Kindest Regards, T, Europe More emails can be read here. |